Fembuelita

My journey from femboy twink to hot lesbian grandma

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  • Transitions

    I suspect it’s common, but my life is one of transitions.Straight. Bi. Gay. Bi. Engaged. Single. Married. Open. Trans. Divorced. Closed. Married. Catholic, questioning, athiest, spirtiual.Over-employed, under-employed, over-employed, self-employed, self-employed with part-time job, full-time job with part-time business. Next full-time job with part-time business, full-time business with part-time job. One full-time business and one part-time… Read more

  • Divorce

    In two days I’ll be a divorcee. I’ll say things like “in my first marriage…” and “my ex-husband.” I never anticipated this as a likely outcome to “my first marriage.” I thought we would have been together for the rest of our lives. It’s weird. I’m glad for the divorce, and yet I’m terribly saddened… Read more

  • It’s been a minute since I’ve checked in. It’s not that there hasn’t been much going on — there has. I’ve been overwhelmed. I’m basically fully recovered from my surgery in August. I have a consultation for my vaginoplasty in a few weeks and I’m stoked. It’s something I’ve wanted my entire adult life. It… Read more