So, as I alluded to in the not-at-all-dramatic ending of my last post, Leif and I split up. Sort of. Basically. It’s a little complicated. Bleh. Okay, so, here’s the gist. He and I had been having some trouble for, well, a while. But, we loved each other and were trying our best to make Read more

Well, yeah. I am. I’m trans femme 🏳️‍⚧️. I came out as nonbinary in 2018 or 2019–I can’t remember exactly which. I think privately in ’18 and publicly in ’19. My friend Devon Price helped me with that journey back when I still lived in Chicago. Oh, I didn’t tell you that I lived in Read more

I’ve never been very good at keeping this updated. Well, not for years now. Either way, I’m back to it. I finally made it happened. I’ve moved to England and I’m now engaged to Greg. Funny how these things work! That’s the short version of everything that’s new. I’m posting video updates as I prefer Read more

It never ceases to amaze me: the plentiful cotton balls of the sheerest white, matched against the prettiest shade of blue as the plane emerges on top the lowest layer of clouds. Going from zero visibility to the clearest sky you may ever see. It’s beautiful. Peaceful. Serene. I am relaxed and at ease as Read more

I’m returning to England. Actually, as a matter of fact. I am sitting in the Milwaukee airport right now. The journey started off with me missing my first flight. Actually, no, that’s not where it started. It started at home in Wausau with being pulled over in my own drive way! After flirting my way Read more

So I’m fed up. I’m going to make some changes in my life. And they will come soon. To all my true friends and family I love you. But I need to reformat. my life is going nowhere near how I wanted or expected it to. I’m making some major changes starting now. I hope. Read more

Talk about taking it in the back. Seriously. –Allow me to elaborate. Since I have “come out” (“again”), I’ve received a lot of mixed responses. What’s ironic about these responses, though, is that 98% of the “straight” people whom I’ve told have been very, very encouraging and accepting; whereas when I came out the first Read more

Wow, it’s amazing how much can change in only a few short months, let alone years.. On May 19th of 2005 I came out of the closet as “bi” to my best friend Greg, as many of you readers know (if I still have any readers left, at least). Within a few months, I realized Read more

Today I gave a presentation with 3 others at the North Technical College to a sociology class. The others were the advisor of the GSA, Sarah, and Robby. We went to the class simply to openly answer questions the class had on anything gay related. The questions were mostly pretty simple. In fact, there wasn’t Read more

So I was out drinking again last night (go figure…), and I was by myself after 1…which was nice. I don’t usually get to just enjoy “alone time.” I did a little bar hoping and ended up at Oz, the gay bar here in town for those who may not know. I realized once I Read more